My friend Tim is in a very hard place with his friend and roommate Lisa. Lisa is in end-stage MS and caretaking has gone beyond what any one person can do. It’s profoundly affecting Tim’s health, finances, and his relationships with his children. Lisa is in a desperate place, but she is quite abusive in her fear, exerting a lot of control and abusing Tim financially. This has been going on for years and it is grinding Tim down to the point he has spent almost all his retirement money taking care of this roommate. It’s really a mess. He sees no way out. I ask for a compassionate and graceful resolution to this situation for everyone.