I’ve had the certain addictions like using psychics unsuccessfully as guides to find a marriage partner.  I would like to let go of this habit of asking psychics for help and drained my finances.  I would like to have healthy finances and I would like to fall in love and get married and start my own family without using psychics instead I would like to use a match maker.   Please resolve everything with an old flame  T.J.L. I tried to get together with him through using psychic advice and it didn’t work.  Also, I think my communication and texts hurt him.  Please resolve this situation completely and help me to let go and surrender the whole situation with T.J.L because I think of him and have not been able to move forward.  The psychics said he rejected me because of my age.  Please help me resolve insecurities with age and health and anything with T.J.L. so I don’t repeat past patterns with him or in a future relationship.